Why cant i achieve my goals

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

why cant i achieve my goals

He is a very intelligent and brilliant person
he works all day and he is really ambitious
he is disciplined, a hard worker and a resourceful person
yet he didn't manage to achieve any of his life goals
Each day he tries and tries, he never gives up but for some reason he never gets close to his goals

Many people who live in this world have the same problem that person has. If you believe you are going your best yet still asking yourself the question "Why can't i achieve my goals" then know that there is one factor that you didn't notice yet that needs to be changed.

In this article i will tell you what to do if you cant achieve your goals.

This is why you cant achieve your goals

Some people are disciplined, intelligent, persistent, hard workers and brilliant but they never manage to achieve their goals, not because they don't do any effort but because they put the effort in the wrong direction.

Each morning those people wake up do the same exact things they always do and as a result get the same outcomes they always get.

If everyday you went to the same day job and worked really hard you will only get your same salary at the end of the month. If everyday you approached people the same way you will always get the same results.

If each day you kept doing the same things you were always doing you will keep getting the same results you were always getting.

If you are wondering why cant you achieve your goals then just know that the problem is that you are repeating an approach that never works.

Change your methods to achieve your goals

When 2knowmyself was still a new site i used to work really hard on it each day but i was only making a little amount of money because i was doing the same things everyday. I just wanted to make money out of ads and that was my main goal.

I kept doing my best each day but the problem was that the income growth was really slow. I spent two years doing real hard work and i never achieved my financial goals thought i was sure i was going great things.

Then why day a friend told me why don't you sell products in addition to ads? The month i started selling products my earnings doubled and within 2 years i became a dot com millionaire. (see my book how i did it)

Had i kept doing the same things i was doing everyday i would have never achieved my goals as i would have been getting the same results.

How to achieve your goals

Now the important question is, what forces a person to keep doing the same things he does everyday without thinking about changing his methods?

Here are the reasons:

  • Remaining in the comfort zone: If you are wondering why can't you achieve your goals then ask yourself the question "Do i prefer to remain in my comfort zone?". Out of fear many people prefer to stick to known methods instead of taking the risk of trying something that they never did before and that's why they never get different results (see How to be brave in life)
  • Self deception: Some people work really hard just to provide excuse for themselves in order to feel good. Those people believe that they are doing their best while in fact they can do way better if they became more creative. If you can't achieve your goals even though you are working hard then you might be using this hard work as a self deception method. Change your approach, do something new and you will get new results
  • knowing nothing about the law of cause and effect: The law of cause and effect states that if you kept doing the same things you were always doing you will keep getting the same results you were always getting. Change your methods, do something you never did before , dare to change your approach and you will certainly achieve your goals

I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.

In The Ultimate guide to becoming rich i will teach you everything that you need to know in order to become rich.

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