How to forgive someone

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to forgive someone

There are lots of websites on the internet that contain articles about forgiveness and the benefits a person can reap after forgiving someone, While I found these articles interesting I noticed that most of them forgot to mention one very important thing about forgiveness which is how to forgive people!!

I am pretty sure you tired to forgive someone before yet few hours later you remembered the bad things he did to you then you became angry. Even if you believe that you forgot what happened your anger will be stored inside you, turned inwards then come back as an unexplained bad mood later on.

In this article I will tell you how to forgive someone the right way so that no traces of undesired emotions remain in your heart.

The strong is not in need

Lots of people find it extremely hard to compliment someone who has done a great achievement because it threatens their own Egos. People who compliment others without fearing anything are the confident ones who believe in themselves and in their ability to do similar accomplishments.

So what does this has to do with forgiveness? Just like a confident person can compliment others without suffering from emotional side effects only powerful people can forgive others without feeling bad afterward.

Imagine that you met one of the WWWF folks in the street and got punched by him in the face for staring at his muscles. Will you be able to forgive him? Forgiveness will never happen because your subconscious mind won’t be convinced that you have done it on intention but it will rather believe that you forgave him because you had no other option.

Forced forgiveness never work, the subconscious mind can only help you forgive a person when it believes that you have other options other than forgiveness.

If your little kid did something bad you can forgive him if you chose to because you have other options but if the WWWF guy bullied you then you will only be fooling yourself by trying to forgive him.

Why do you think people fail to forgive their old lovers when they dump them? In my book How to get over anyone in few days i explained how forgiveness can never happen as long as you are still needy. As soon as you forget the person you loved and love someone else you will easily be able to forgive him because you don't need him anymore.

How to forgive people and ease your pain

My answer to the "how to forgive someone question" is to become strong enough so that you can truly forgive him without fooling your subconscious mind.

If someone bullied you then learn how to become strong, to defend yourself and to fight back then forgive the other bullies you meet later on.

The bad feelings you get when someone hurts you will disappear if your subconscious mind believed that no one will hurt you this way again. After all these bad feelings can be nothing but a cry from your subconscious mind asking you to prevent such events from happening in the future.

So to summarize this all, becoming stronger will help you forgive people and promising yourself that you won’t let anybody hurt you again will ease the pain you get when someone does something bad to you.

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