How to make someone want you

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to make someone want you

Each one of us has his own needs and wants. What makes Sarah happy might not be the same thing that makes Sam happy and what motivates Tim might not by any means be the same thing that motivates Jeremy.

In my book how to make someone fall in love with you I said that making a person love you is a process that involves two steps, The first one is to identify that person’s needs and wants and the second is to make him believe that you are the person who can satisfy these needs and wants.

If you want to make someone want you then you don’t have to act nice, be kind or loving because unless the person wants to be treated that way he won’t bother paying attention to you.

How to understand a person’s needs?

One of the very interesting things about psychology is that you can determine what a person wants from a relationship by examining his behavior at something that is totally unrelated such as shopping!!!

Yes you can know what a person is looking for in a life partner by observing his shopping patterns!! A person I know lately bought an expensive mobile that has an enormous number of functions, large keypad and huge storage memory.

You won’t need to talk to that person for more than 5 minutes to know that he has never used any of the functions in his mobile phone!!

So the question is why did he buy a mobile that has all of these options while he is not interested in any of them? The answer is simple; the mobile is very eye catchy, looks expensive and shows that the person who bought it has a lot of money.

Its clear that we are dealing with a showy person who wants nothing but to let other people know that he is successful and wealthy.

So what does all this has to do with making such a person want you? That person doesn’t need nice treatment or flowers but he needs a good looking partner or at least a popular one to fulfill his showing off needs!!

Its not about who you are but its about who you appear to be

You don’t have to be gorgeous to appeal to that showy person but you just need to convince him that you are gorgeous. This might sound against logic but when knowing more about social proof theory and subconscious mind programming you would discover that a person might find another one very attractive if other people kept praising that person.

So after all its not about who you are or what you can do but its about how the other person sees you. The good news is that people’s perception can be changed by using the concepts and theories mentioned in the previous paragraph.

Next time your target buys something make sure you know why he bought it so that you understand what he is looking for in a life partner.

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