How to make someone attracted to you

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to make someone attracted to you

Many people write about attraction without having any idea what they are talking about. Before a person can write successfully about what attracts others he should first have a solid idea of both attraction psychology and the psychology of falling in love.

The topic i am going to talk about today is how to make someone attracted to you.
When this question comes to the mind of people usually another question comes in their minds which is:

Can i attract someone even if he was more attractive than me? what if i wasn't physically attractive? do i still have a chance? Certainly you do!!

How attraction happens

People become attracted to those who have a higher total score than them or at least a similar total score. The total score is the score the person gives to others which is calculated based on his own past experiences and unmet needs. (see Unmet needs psychology)

Each person has a unique way of calculating this total score as a result of the unique past experiences he has been through. For example if a person always suffered because of unfaithful friends then loyalty might constitute a high weight when he calculates total scores for others. In such a case a loyal person will have a higher total score provided that all other factors are constant.

So what does this has to do with making someone attracted to you?

Two ways to make someone attracted to you

There are two major strategies you can use to make someone attracted to you.

  • I) If you were really attractive: If you believe you are very attractive (physically) and if you are sure that your target gives a high weight to physical attraction (because unless he does your physical attractiveness will be considered useless) then you can move on to the next section right away (see also How to become more attractive)
  • II) If you are an ordinary person: If you are an ordinary person like most of the people then you first need to elevate your total score in the eyes of your target using other methods. You must become friends with him first to know more about the way he uses to calculate the total scores for people then you must work on elevating your total score without showing him any intention that you want to be with him in a relationship. After doing that you should then move to the next step

The next step to make someone attracted to you

Once you managed to elevate your total score in any of the above ways and once you make sure that you did it correctly you can then start to give extra attention to that person without ever showing him that you are interested in him.

In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i said that when someone gets attention from a person he considers a loser he wont even care to think about him but when the same person gets attention from someone who has a higher total score than him then he will start to think about the possibility of a relationship.

The most important thing you must do when attracting someone to you is not to tell him about your intentions directly. You need to confuse the person, to make him believe that you have a higher total score and in the same time to make him unsure whether you like him or not.

This missing piece of information will let him think about you even more and these thoughts will then turn into attachment.

The final step to making someone attracted to you

Once the person becomes attached to you work on elevating your total score even more and start to become distant. This will make him mad!! he will think about you more often, he will try to chase you and at this point you can rest assured that you made him attracted to you.

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