How to deal with people who complain all the time

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to deal with people who complain all the time

How to deal with people who complain all the time?
Before you can know the answer to this question you must first know why do some people keep complaining all the time.

People can be dived into two main groups, the first are the ones who keep complaining and blaming the world for their mistakes while the second are the ones who take responsibility for anything that happens in their lives.

Some parents teach their children indirectly how to complain instead of taking responsibility whenever something wrong happens. For example if the kid fell on the floor and cried some parents beat the floor in front of the kid, in other way they are telling the kid you are OK its the floor's mistake!!

Some other people have learned to complain all the time because of wanting to be noticed. If a child wasn't given enough attention then he might grow up to become an adult who always complains.

In this article i will tell you how to deal with those people who complain all the time.

The right way to deal with people who complain all the time

The person who always complains does it for a reason even if he aren't aware of that reason. For example some people complain whenever they fail just to prove to themselves and to others that they are worthy and that the failure wasn't their mistake.

Those people might be complaining because of the false beliefs they have about failure, in other words they think that failing will make them worthless.

The first thing you need to do to deal with people who complain all the time is to find out the exact reason that is motivating them to complain.

Are they protecting their self worth? Are they afraid to take responsibility? Do they want to catch attention?

Once you know the reason you must be aware that most people will resist whenever you confront them with their real intentions and that's why you must be very careful not to tell them directly about what you found.

At this point you must show the person that complaining all the time will never let him reach the goal he was trying to reach. If his was was protecting his self worth for example then you can direct him towards a better solution that can help him feel worthy.

Final words about dealing with people who complain all the time

You must also help the person take responsibility of his life and let him know that even if some external factors are out of everyone's control still he can change his strategies and adapt to the world.

Dealing with a person who complains all the time is all about shifting his mindset from thinking like a helpless victim to thinking like someone who is in control

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