No no i am not going to tell you to write smart goals or to set dead lines but instead I am going to tell you why do some people really reach what they want and why do some people never manage to do that.
contrary to common beliefs most goals aren't reached because of doing something extraordinary but they are reached when those who are competing with you don't try hard enough!!
When you keep going even though others are quitting your chance of reaching a certain goal becomes so high. Let's see how this happens. See How to reach your goals
Let's suppose that there was an amazing job offer that any man would dream of. Most probably all people in town would compete for that job to get the offer.
What usually happens is that, some people believe that they won't get it anyways and so they never try.
Another group of people will believe that they are not lucky enough to get the job and so they will never try as well. A third group of people will try once and when they fail they join the other two groups and believe that they have no chance.
the remaining people will try for few times and when they fail most of them will quit.
At the beginning 10,000 people were competing for the offer but now only few people are remaining.
Those few didn't reach that far because they tried very hard but because they stood their grounds when others were falling.
In the Solid Self confidence program i said that most goals can be reached when you manage to keep trying even though you are failing. Sometimes you might reach a goal not because you did something extraordinary but because all of those who were competing with you gave up so early.
This doesn't mean that your effort is not important. After all if you became resilient but didn't do any effort then you will also fail. The point here is doing the right effort while standing your ground and never quitting.
If you really want to reach a goal then you must understand that its a game of tolerance.
You must be more patient than all of those who are competing with you.
you must be more resilient than all of those who are competing with you.
You must never quit when others lose hope.
You must never run away when people get scared.
you must stand up right after you fall even if most people fail to do that.
you must put in mind that the more you stand your ground the less will be the competition as lots of people will fall along the way.
The most important thing is that you don't get me wrong and believe that waiting is the only thing you have to do in order to reach a goal.
While being resilient you must be eagerly fighting for what you want
you must be learning and reading to develop your missing skills.
and you must be doing your best when others are just falling.
Know that the road to achieving a goal is tough and full of obstacles. Don't expect things to be rosy for this can force you to quit as soon as you encounter some problems. Yes being positive is very important but a part of being positive is preparing yourself for what you are about to face.
If you did that you will certainly reach your goals.
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