People tell me i can't do something

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

People tell me i can't do something

Whomever you are and wherever you come from am sure that you have some goals and dreams in mind. These goals don't have to be career or work related ones but they can be connected to anything that is important to you. This important goal can be something related to your social life or even a relationship related goal.

And just as i am sure that you have important goals am also sure as well that there are tens of people out there who put you down and who tell you that you won't make it.

Many people mistakenly believe that good ideas never get rejected and that's why they start to doubt their goals and dreams whenever someone puts them down.

Its not uncommon for a guy who was once extreemly enthusiastic about something to lose hope completely after being told that he will never make it. (see also Indifference explained)

Ive spoken several times before about subconscious mind programming and i explained how the continues repetition of these negative statements can turn them into solid beliefs.

but did you ever ask yourself whether the words of the people who put you down carry any weight?

Why do people put others down

Some people will put you down because they are jealous, yes they don't want to see you successful! Others will put you down because they believe that they can't do what you intend to do and so they assume that you wont be able to do it as well.

Some people put others down because they see the world incorrectly and from a different angle! Some people believe that no one can succeed at a young age, others believe that no one can succeed at an old age while a third group believes that success is all about >luck.

when someone gives you an opinion it will always be biased towards his own beliefs which might be completely incorrect! A person who lacks confidence, and who believes that he can't do a certain task, might tell you that you can't do it as well.

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Another group of people might put you down just because they hate to see you happy! unfortunately there are sick people out there who don't want to see you successful or happy.

What happened with me

The number of people who made fun of me, who put me down and who told me that i will never make it was very large. I still remember how horrible i felt after people told me long ago that my articles were not good and that my books will never be sold anywhere.

During that time i knew that those people were wrong but on the other hand i was afraid that they turn out to be right. I decided not to believe them and to believe in myself and look at what happened! The idea that was rejected by almost everyone i knew turned into a website with sales north of 1,500,000 (1.5 million) Egyptian pounds each year! (see the Ultimate guide to becoming rich)

Each and every person who once rejected this idea is 100% sure now that he was stupid!
Those people don't ever dare to look me in the eye these days when they meet me. Some of them have even removed me from facebook because they can't tolerate to know more good news about me (since i announce all good news on my facebook).

What should you do when you get rejected

Whenever you get rejected you have two options, the first is to believe those who reject you and to look down whenever you see them and the second is to prove them wrong so that they look down whenever they see you.

If people were right they would have been successful themselves. If people were right they would have been happy themsleves. (see also How to turn rejection to success)

Most people say what they don't really mean, talk about what they don't fully understand and put others down because of their own hidden agendas.

You have the option of either believing the people who put you down and losing faith in yourself or believing in yourself and proving the whole world wrong later on.

I did it, and you so can.

I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.

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