Rejection hurts so much

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Rejection hurts so much

It feels so bad when you find that people are underestimating you.
It feels really bad when you find that people are prejudging you or not respecting you.

In my previous articles about rejection i said that rejections could happen for many reasons that are not related to your worth. But even when that's the case rejection still hurts so much.

During such a time you might feel like wanting to tell people that they got you wrong, that they didn't value you correctly or that they made a mistake.

But this is not always the case, when most people get rejected they believe the people who rejected them! A talented woman might stop practicing her hobby only because some people told her that she is no good while a genius man might stop perusing his goals just because people made him believe that he is not capable of reaching them.

Do you know when rejection hurts the most?
It hurts the most when you believe the people who rejected you!

Rejections hurts the most when you believe the people who reject you

Years ago i decided to start a retail business that sells clothes online. I believed at that time that i could make deals with some of the famous stores to sell their stuff online.

I moved from one store to the next explaining my idea and i was rejected by everyone i talked to. Some people were kind enough to give polite excuses not to participate but i still felt really bad because of these indirect rejections.

The same story always happens but with different names. As soon as you get few rejections people turn their backs to you especially the close ones. We were four people working on that project when three of them decided to quit leaving me alone!

At this point i was hurt the most not because i was rejected but because i believed that its impossible to start a successful business on my own.

Thanks to God i managed to overcome this setback and to start another business which failed as well! I started a third one and it failed as well after succeeding for around a year.

After few years and many failed projects i managed to become a self made millionaire at a young age! (see the Ultimate guide to becoming rich)

How to prevent rejection from hurting you

Everyone who previously criticized the efforts i was doing and the projects i was working on became shocked when he heard about the success of my last business. (see also Inspirational stories of successful people)

That's the same day i realized how good rejections can feel like.
Rejections can be the best thing that ever happened to you if you managed to prove those who rejected you wrong by succeeding.

I know that right now you are clueless about the direction you should take in order to prove those people wrong but if you believed in yourself you will find that direction.

Believe those who reject you and you will end up a desperate victim of their cruelty. When Believe in yourself you will prove them all wrong one day and you will experience true feelings of victory.

The road to success is not short, its not easy and its full of obstacles but if you believed in yourself you will make it to the end.

How come you want people to change their minds and to believe in you before you manage to believe in yourself?

I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.

In The Ultimate guide to becoming rich i will teach you everything that you need to know in order to become rich.

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