Why do women like ambitious men

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Why do most women feel insecure?

Unlike men, women's minds work in a much more complicated way when it comes to judging attractiveness. One of the things women unconsciously consider when they look for potential partners is the safety and security of their future offspring. Because women care about raising healthy children they tend to unconsciously look for men who can help them with this quest.

In my previous article Does money attract women i said that most women, even those who are not gold diggers, prefer richer men because of a simple reason which is that those men can ensure a better future for their offspring.

This biological desire is also fueled by the way men treat women across the globe. When was the last time you heard a joke about women?

Am pretty sure that wasn't long ago. Despite all the talk about equality between men and women and the efforts done people still send indirect messages to women telling them that they are inferior to men. Jokes, expressions such as "man up" and many other indirect messages make women feel even more inferior and insecure. And of course this fuels their already existing need for security, protection and safety. (see also Why many women fear men)

What does Ambition have to do with all this?

Ambition is the ultimate indicator women use to know whether a man will attain financial success or not. Common sense states that an ambitious man is more likely to keep trying to succeed until he makes it. Now when women see ambitious men, even those who claim they don't care about money, they unconsciously find them more attractive because of believing that they can provide better resources for their children.

I previously said that we fall for those who match the important items in our love maps. The thing you should know is that even if you don't match one of those items you can still make people like you by broadcasting a signal that shows that you have the potential to acquire that item you lack. (see What is a love map)

Even if a woman cares about money and wants to be with a rich man she could still fall for a man who is not rich provided that she believes that his ambition will take him somewhere.

Broadcasting the right Signals

In my latest book Jane's Code i explained how a broke guy convinced a woman who cared a lot about money that he will have a bright future one day.

That guy didn't state directly that he is ambitious else it would have been a turn off but instead he sent indirect signals such as talking about his future plans often to show that woman that he is truly ambitions. In the end she fell for him. Not because he was just ambitions but because he also managed to broadcast all the other important signals she was looking for. (see also Does love have anything to do with logic?)

The takeaway here is, if you are a man then don't display your ambition directly but instead send indirect signs that show that you are ambitious. Finally don't depend on ambition alone because each person has a long list of items that should be present in a future partner. Match most of those items and your chances to attract the one you want will be extremely high.

Do looks really matter? Can an unattractive person attract a very attractive one? Yes its quite possible and this is exactly what Jane's Code is all about. A revolutionary book that explains how love can be manipulated no matter who you are or how you look like.

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