Hesitation causes

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Hesitation causes

What causes hesitation?
Why would someone hesitate even though he has a certain important goal?
Why do some people keep changing careers, hobbies or goals?

I am not talking about the kind of hesitation that lets you fear to approach a stranger because its well known that this kind of hesitation is caused by fear, but instead, i am talking about the kind of hesitation that lets a person hesitate in his life, fear to take an important decision and remain stuck in the same place for years.

In this article i will tell you what causes hesitation.

This is what causes Hesitation

Almost all people have important goals even if they weren't aware of them.
Why wouldn't someone pursue his goals directly instead of wasting his time?
Why would someone hesitate even though he knows he should move in a certain direction in order to reach his goals?

The fact that you might not be aware of is that hesitation happens when an unconscious conflict develops!! This means that hesitation is caused by the development of two opposite goals even if one of them was not apparent to you.

Sometimes an unconscious goal can take control over your decisions even if you were not aware of it.

Why was he hesitating?

Justin was an intelligent kid but he wasn't lucky enough to be surrounded by teachers who understand the human nature. They kept calling him names such as "Dumb" and "stupid" until he started to believe that he is really dumb.

When Justin grew up his biggest unconscious fear was to prove this these words true by failing in life. He was never aware that this was a very important goal that resided in his subconscious mind.

Justin hesitated so much in his career without knowing the cause. Whenever he started working in a job he felt dissatisfied, lost and clueless.

Justin's subconscious mind never allowed him to continue in a certain job because it was afraid that people might discover that he is really dumb or stupid!! It thought that its better for him to hesitate than to take a direction that might prove his fears true!

What causes your hesitation?

In the Solid Self confidence program i said that Even stuttering can be the result of carrying two conflicting goals in your mind. The first goal is the desire to socialize while the second is the desire to hide your true self from others.

Another famous form of hesitation is procrastination where you find yourself unable to start doing an important thing while giving false excuses such as i am not in the mood. (see Why do people procrastinate so much)

Do you hesitate in your life? Do you know what causes your hesitation?
There is an unconscious goal that you aren't aware of that is controlling your behaviour.

Know that goal, understand it well, see how can you achieve it in another way and you won't hesitate anymore.

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