Most of the people who ask that question usually have a wrong assumption in mind. Those people usually believe that being single means that the person is lonely and as a result they wonder how single people deal with loneliness.
The first thing you need to know is that some single people don’t even know what loneliness is as they hardly experience it. First of all let me quickly define loneliness. Loneliness is the state of absence of intimacy where a person finds nobody to connect to on a deeper level. People who don’t have someone to share their emotions, thoughts, concerns and beliefs with usually end up feeling very lonely.
The single people who have a busy social life and who are surrounded by intimate friends can hardly ever feel lonely. The good thing about intimacy is that the mind doesn’t really care where it comes from as long as it’s coming from a good source. See Dealing with loneliness after a breakup.
Thus People who have a good source of intimacy hardly feel lonely. This source of intimacy can come from friends or family members. As long as the guidelines that lead to intimate relationships are maintained those people hardly feel lonely. See how to develop intimacy.
People who wonder how single people deal with loneliness are the ones who usually do a big mistake when it comes to intimacy. Those people usually depend on their relationship partners for intimacy while weakening the connection between them and all of their other friends.
When those people breakup they find themselves surrounded by friends they can’t really get intimate with. After all for intimacy to happen a person needs to share everything with his friends.
Because those people have been isolating themselves from their friends for some time they don’t get the same level of intimacy they used to get from their relationship partners. See why you feel lonely after breakups.
Solving that problem isn’t hard but you must understand that the solution should be implemented all year round. Even if you got into a relationship with a person you like so much don’t ever cut the connection or even reduce the contact with your old friends.
In my book How to get over anyone in few days i said that when you do so you will have more than one source of intimacy and so if for any reason you lost one source you will still have many other sources around.
Lack of intimacy also leads to love addiction. If you became dependent on relationships for intimacy then you won’t be able to stay single for long periods of time and as a result you are very likely to make a wrong decision just because you can’t handle the emotions of loneliness. See signs you are a love addict.
So in short if you are wondering how single people deal with loneliness then most probably you have a wrong idea about intimacy, loneliness and relationships. Build intimacy in a different way and you will hardly feel lonely even if you stayed single for years.
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