Hey i think you would look better if you changed your hair style.
Look i think you need to look for another job as this one doesn't suit you.
Why are you always negative, it's bad for you.
I am pretty sure those phrases sound familiar. Those are examples of advice people give to each other all the time. I believe that the world has both good and bad people. Many good people try to give their friends advice in order to help them live better lives. Just like there are good people there are also bad ones who try to seem like good ones by giving advice to friends. The problem with the advice that comes from bad people is that it usually has totally different intentions.
In my previous article How to understand hidden intentions in humans i said that some people do certain things while having a certain agenda in mind.
A person can give you advice in order to seem like a friend but that person might be trying to reach a totally different goal that has nothing to do with helping you.
Sam was always jealous of Steve because he was more successful than him. Sam was good at picking the right clothes while Steve wasn't as good as him. Sam always used to give advice to Steve about his clothes. Steve believed that Sam wanted his best while in fact Sam was just using the advice as a method to overpower Steve in order to release some of his suppressed emotions.
Sam on the other hand didn't really quite understand his own intentions but he always felt like making bad remarks about Steve's clothing. Sam went even further by making some of those remarks in front of other people.
Sam's subconscious mind had one main goal, To help him feel that he is better than Steve by constantly telling him that he doesn't know how to dress properly.
There are so many similar cases out there that take different forms. A person can give you some advice while appearing to be a friend only to achieve an important psychological goal that he is after.
So how can you find out who really loves you and who is giving you advice to achieve personal goals?
In order to do that you need to get more understanding of people in order to single out jealous ones, haters who try to seem like friends and the ones who don't like to see you happy.
Once you manage to find those people you should then filter the advice they give to you to find out which are genuine ones and which are just there for a different purpose.
The way a person gives advice can also give an indication about his intentions. In my previous article how to give advice to people i explained how the way an advice is given can reveal the real intentions behind it.
If for example a person gave you an advice in public in a humiliating way then you need to question that person's intentions first before accepting their advice.
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