Why am i suffering

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Why am I suffering?

Why am I suffering?
Because its your choice

Of course I am not talking about someone who suffers from a disease or a disability but I am talking about those who always choose a path in their lives that results in making them suffer then think that they are victims.

Those people choose a certain path, stick to it and then think that they are stuck. by doing so they justify the suffering they are facing to the extent that they sometimes blame others for their own choices.

Yesterday I got a phone call from one of the local Television channels asking me to host my own television show each week. Wow, what a phone call, I can now promote my website, I can become famous and I can gain lots of other benefits.

But hey, in order to do this, I have to travel each week for 400 kilometers because the studio is in another city. Traveling for some people is something that is enjoyable but for me its a horrible experience.

What will you do if you were in my shoes? would you accept the offer even though you hate traveling in the early morning ? I won’t tell you what my reply was, until you read this article.

People suffer because they choose to suffer

You hate your job, you can’t take it anymore and you even hate passing by the building you work at. So why are you still working there? Obviously because you think that you are stuck and that you have no other options.

When we were small kids we were fed with lots of incorrect beliefs that made most of us regard suffering as something usual or as something that must happen in order for us to reach our goals.

You have to suffer in order to achieve your goals, you have to have a hard time at the beginning of your life before you can become well established and "no pain no gain are" all examples of poisoned beliefs that we learned by hard when we were small children.

The result of accumulating such false beliefs in our minds is that they changed the way we think in such a way that we started to regard suffering as something that cant be escaped. We started to think that we are stuck and that there is no other way to achieve what we wanted other than to suffer.

In my book, The ultimate guide to getting over depression i explained how can the formation of such beliefs result in depression. After all depression results from loss of hope in dealing with a certain life problem, if you formed such false beliefs you will be sending a signal to your mind saying that hope is lost and so it will reply back with depression.

Why do you spend your whole life suffering and doing something that you hate?
Until when are you going to suffer? When you were at school they told you that you have to suffer in order to join college and then in college they told you that suffering is essential before you can graduate and find a job and then when you started working you were told that you have to suffer in your early years before you can become well established.

Just tell me how many years do you intend to suffer before you finally realize that you want to live a happy life?

I did it before and I am doing it again

2 years ago I was told by almost everyone that I cant make lots of money except when I suffer like the others, for some reason I didn’t believe them all and I choose E-business as a path because it’s a way of making money that requires very limited effort.

Nowadays, 2knowmyself.com makes me thousands of dollars/month without even leaving my bed. The only times i have to leave my home because of work is when i have to go to the bank to receive my money.

Everyone was against me and even the closest people to me didn’t believe that I will make it but in the end I did it. I choose the way that has no suffering at all yet it makes me more money than all of my friends who suffer.

I didn't go for that weekly television show simply because I hate to travel for 400 kilometers each week unless I do it on intention. Again I am making a big decision in my life and again this decision will prove to others in few years that people can reach whatever they want without suffering and while living a happy life.

Forgot to mention, I only work for 3-5 hours/day on 2knowmyself.com

Final words

If you are now suffering because of something that you can change then you are suffering because you chose to suffer. Don’t blame God for it for he is not responsible for what you are experiencing now, its your own choices that led you to where you are now.

Quit that job that is making you suffer, abandon this relationship that is making you suffer and avoid everything and anything that makes you suffer. But wait, don't avoid everything then wonder how you are going to reach your goals, be innovative, creative, persistent and have faith in your abilities and you will find another way that is suffering free for reaching what you want.

No pain no gain?
No false beliefs, no suffering

Farouk is not only holding several degrees in psychology but he is also an MBA holder, a stock market investor and an entrepreneur. The information you are reading now can dramatically increase your chance of increasing your wealth and becoming reach. If you have any doubts regarding these statements then read what other visitors say about 2knowmyself.com.The book How I did it was written by Farouk and it explains how he managed to make a website that generates thousands of dollars/month in less than 2 years without paying a penny.

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