How to overcome shyness

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to overcome shyness

Shyness is one of the personality traits that can ruin self confidence if not treated.
Many people who want to overcome shyness either don't have an idea about what to do or either do the wrong things then find no results.

The key to overcoming shyness is to get a good understanding of human behavior in general so that you know why certain personality disorders are developed. Once you get this type of understanding getting over shyness will be an easy task.

In this article i will tell you how to overcome shyness.

Understanding shyness is the key to overcoming it

According to individual psychology any human behavior even if it seemed strange or abnormal was developed by the mind to reach a goal that is quite logical to the person.

From a distance shyness might appear like an odd behavior but when examined closely you will find that its usually developed to protect the person from getting exposed to people who might affect his well being.

If for example a child felt that he is less worthy than others thus developed feelings of inferiority then there is a big chance that he will develop shyness in order to protect himself from getting close to people who might discover that he is really worthless.

You will never be able to overcome shyness before you understand the exact purpose that your shyness is trying to serve.

In the Solid Self confidence program i said that people who fear exposing their true self to others because of thinking that there is something wrong with them usually develop shyness. If those people tried to overcome shyness itself without treating the underlying reason then their efforts might yield no results.

How to overcome the shyness problem?

Its possible to overcome shyness by forcing yourself to talk to people but even if you managed to do it the underlying feelings of inferiority or self doubt will continue to exist and will lead to the formation of another behavioral problem.

For example, A shy person who managed to overcome his shyness without getting rid of an underlying inferiority might develop an superiority complex which is another way to his his inferiority feelings.

Thus to overcome shyness completely you need to examine your past, your beliefs about your self and understand the reason your mind is using such a strategy to let you avoid people.

Once you find that root cause deal with it and your shyness, which is just a symptom for that root cause, will disappear as well.

The best way to end a psychological disorder for good is to replace the strategy your mind was using with another one that helps it fulfill its goals.

In the case of shyness your mind didn't want you to interact with people in order to protect your well being, thus, if you can come up with another strategy that can help you reach the same goal then your subconscious mind will happily accept it.

In summary, you can replace an unwanted behavior with a better one provided that it serves the same goal the first used to serve.

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