What should the people who love each other but can't be together do

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

We love each other but we can't be together

Every now and then i get this question from one of the readers. We love each other but for some reason , that can't be changed, we can never be together.

I am not writing this article to discuss the philosophical concept of fighting those reasons together to change things but i am writing it to tell the ones who know they can never be together what they should do.

I have to warn you before you continue. This article won't sound romantic at all. Sometimes we feel good when people tell us what we want to hear but what if the things we want to hear were against our well being?

Yes it would sound great , for some people , to be told that love is above everything and that you should keep fighting to be together but in some cases this can't happen. See why love is not like in the movies.

So what can be done about it?

What should the people who love each other but can't be together do

Let's suppose that you used a time machine to go back with your car hundreds of years before cars were invented. What will the people who see you driving the car think of you?

Some of them might think you landed from the sky, others might think that you are not human while others might believe that you are a magician. Now if those people got proper education about cars won't the air of mystery fade away a little bit?

If those people got proper education over the span of many months then shortly they will stop being fascinated by you and your car.

So you might be wondering what does this have to do with love?
The reason you think love is mysterious, holly and supernatural is that you don't understand it.
In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how we fall in love when we meet a person who helps us fulfill the needs we developed throughout the years we lived.

This means that love isn't mysterious, it is controlled by the brain and you can fall in love with anyone as long as he can help you satisfy your needs. I know this can be shocking for those who believe that there is such a thing as the soulmate and the reason is simple.

People who can't really describe the emotions they have towards others tend to glorify those emotions. As you get a deep understanding of how your brain works you won't be that attached to the one you love. See why we fall in love.

What causes this type of attachment

You are attached greatly to that person you love because you think you won't love another person as much as you love them. But as soon as your mind , which controls the process, finds another person who can fulfill your needs it will get you attached to them.

yes the person you are attached too might be great but there are so many great people out there that you didn't meet yet. In fact i don't want to put it this way but there are so many better people out there that you didn't meet met.

It's almost impossible for the human mind to understand those concepts by reading one article and this is why i used the term education above. You should educate yourself about the nature of love and once you do you will find that getting over any person in the world is very simple.

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