How confident people think

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to be a confident person

Usually parents who have insecurities pass these insecurities along to their children without noticing and on the other hand confident parents usually raise confident children without knowing anything about correct parenting methods.

The reason this happens is that self confidence or lack of it is nothing more than a way of thinking that the person learns during his childhood. This means that self confidence has nothing to do with inheritance or genes but instead its all about a set of beliefs that a person carries.

The good news is that even if you are not a confident person now you can still learn how to think like confident people and so become a confident person. In this article i will tell you how to be a confident person.

How confident people think?

In order to think like confident people you need to understand their way of thinking first so that you can replicate it. The following points will help you understand how confident people think:

  • They think about courage not fear: Most people who want to build self confidence do the mistake of focusing on the traits they want to avoid instead of focusing on the traits they want to acquire. When the subconscious mind finds that someone is thinking of something all the time it starts to help him reach it even if it was something negative!! By focusing on the negative things those people find themselves moving towards the behavior they want to avoid
  • They followed a Role mode: Humans learn best by example, the more you accompany confident people and the more you watch them the more likely you are going to be like them. If your parents didn't manage to make you become a confident person then don't worry you can still find a confident role model and stick to him.
  • Fix your flaws but don't forget to develop your skills Of course you must seek information that can help you conquer your fears and improve your communication skills but on the other hand you must never forget to read about becoming a leader, an alpha male/female and about acting confident. The more you read about these positive traits the more they will become a normal part of your belief system and the closer you will get to them
  • They keep reminding themselves of their points of strength: In the Solid Self confidence program i said how Confident people always keep reminding themselves of their positive traits and of their accomplishments. This gives them a continues self confidence boost that helps them stay confident all the time.
  • They don't give any weight to the opinion of others: Confident people don't beg others for approval, they don't care much about the opinion of others and they don't feel bad at all if they were rejected. Simply their sense of self worth comes from within and that's why they don't need any external approval.
  • They attribute rejection to other factors: A confident person never thinks that something is wrong with him when someone rejects him but instead he tries to find any other logical explanation such as "He was too busy thinking to notice me"
  • They are not self inhibited: A confident person isn't by any means self inhibited. That person won't keep obsessing about his own flaws but instead will focus on the outer world more than he will focus on his own weaknesses. In other words a confident person doesn't give much attention to his flaws

Thinking like a confident person can make you confident

Self confidence is nothing more than a set of beliefs a person has about himself. Those beliefs are constructed as a result of the person's way of thinking. In other words if a person kept thinking in a certain way he will end up with certain beliefs.

This is why thinking like a confident person for sometime can actually make you a confident person. Try to adhere to those ways of thinking for some time and you will notice your negative beliefs changing.

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