I can help everyone but myself

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Does this sound familiar?

I can help everyone but myself.
I always give advice to everyone but i never manage to find the right direction myself.

Does this sound familiar? So many people people believe they can give directions to others and help them out but when it comes to themselves they just don't know what to do.

The reason i am writing this article is to help those who have that problem understand why it happens so that they can help themselves out.

I can help everyone but myself

Here are some of the possible reasons you can help others but not yourself:

  • 1) You don't believe in yourself: Sometimes knowing the solution is not enough for solving a problem. In the Solid Self confidence program i said that without a solid belief in yourself and your abilities you won't find any reason to work on your plan. After all if you believe the plan isn't going to work then why will your mind bother motivating you to pursue it?
  • 2) You don't have enough courage: Sometimes you need to go through unpleasant experiences in order to solve a problem you are facing. People who don't have enough courage might know about the right solution yet never apply it because of fear. Fear of failure, fear of trying or even fear of taking control of your life might be behind your lack of motivation
  • 3) You don't know how to help others you just think so: This is one of the very common reasons for that problem. So many people assume that psychology of humans can be understood by experience and that's totally wrong. While experience can help a lot still you won't ever understand your emotional problems perfectly before you read a lot about psychology and self help. Now so many people think they know the answers to their friends' problems while the truth is that they are misguided.
  • 4) You are afraid to take the responsibility: Fear of taking the responsibility is one of the most famous reasons behind not starting on your plans. So many people feel insecure when they are in charge and as a result they don't try to solve their life problems

So how to deal with such problems?

The first thing you need to do is to make sure you have a perfect understanding of the problems you facing. I meet so many people who assume they know what's wrong with them then after talking to them i discover that they are totally unaware of what's going on in their minds. (see also Understanding your emotions)

Understanding your basic needs, desires and knowing what you really want out of life is the first step that must be taken in order to help yourself out.

The next thing you need to do is to move forward with disregard to your fears. No matter what the type of fear that is stopping you is you must move forward even if its there. If you did so then sooner or later you will find that you are able to solve your own problems and you won't just give advice to friends.

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