Why you should end a relationship with a married man

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

The problem with the man

Why do you think a married man is having an affair with you?
Probably because he doesn't like his wife, right?

So if that's true then probably he made a wrong choice because he didn't really know what he wanted. So if that person made a wrong choice then what guarantees that he is making the right choice now by being with you?

What if that man is unstable that he doesn't really know what he is looking for?
But after all we all make mistakes and no one is immune from choosing the wrong person. But if that person just made a mistake then why didn't he leave the relationship?

Probably this person has strong reasons to adhere to the relationship and this is why he didn't leave it.
So if this person doesn't plan to end the relationship soon then where do you expect to fit in his life?

There is also another problem. A person's behaviour will usually take different forms as long as it matches his core beliefs. That person is now cheating on his wife and there is a very big chance that he will do the same to you.

In other words when a person does a certain behaviour it tells a lot about his beliefs and provided that those beliefs remain intact the same behaviour can be repeated over and over. See why you get attracted to cheaters.

The problem of guilt

Guilt is one of the very powerful negative emotions a person can experience. Unlike many other emotions guilt tend to remain there for long periods of time. Even if you managed to let that man breakup and develop a relationship with you guilt would still be a major problem for you.

As guilt keeps growing you might end up feeling depressed or you might even feel like breaking up in order to get rid of the intolerable guilt. In all cases you might ruin the relationship you have been trying to build.

Yes you might get a self esteem boost if you got a man to leave his wife for you but that self esteem boost will be temporary and sooner or later guilt will arrive.

Could it be a commitment problem?

In my previous article Why do i only get attracted to married men i said that one of the popular reasons for only finding married men attractive is that you are afraid of marriage.

After all your subconscious mind is very smart. Its goal might be letting you get attached to people you would never marry just because it's too scared of marriage. Getting attracted to a married person might actually be your own defense mechanism against fear of marriage. See also This is why you always fall in love with commitment phobes

What if i really like that man

It's totally OK to like a married person but in order for your actions to be 100% ethical you need to never interfere and see whether that person will breakup on his own or not.

If that person broke up then there is nothing wrong at all about approaching him afterwards but as long as someone is married it might not be a good idea to chase them.

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