How to become an achiever in life

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

The mindset of an achiever

Why do some people seem to always get what they want in life?
Why do some people make great achievements while others don't?
Why are some people always motivated to reach their goals while others aren't?

The answer to all of these questions lies in the differences between the way of thinking of the two groups. For the first instance you might believe that achievers are the ones who have more resources and as a result they achieve more but when you read about the success stories of those achievers you will find that many of them began from below the zero then achieved tremendous success.

A poor man can become a billionaire if he become an achiever. An obese woman can have a perfect body if she become an achiever. In other words, those achievers realize their dreams and make them true because they think in a certain way.

In this post i will help you understand how achievers think so that you can become one of them.

how to become an achiever in life

  • 1) They set goals to satisfy their important needs: Most people are told that they must have goals in order to have a useful life. As a result those people try to find anything useful to do even if they don't really have passion for it. Achievers on the other hand are self motivated because they only go after what they really want not what was forced upon them by peer pressure
  • 2) They take full responsibility: All achievers without exceptions understand that they are responsible for whatever they are going through. In other words, they don't blame luck, the government, the economy or the unfairness of life but instead they strongly believe that they can change their fate with their own hands. That's the main reason why Achievers never give up. Because they have no one to blame other than themselves giving up makes no sense to them
  • 3) They have a burning desire to reach their goals: How would you react if you were lost in the desert without any water then suddenly saw a car passing by? How fast are you going to run towards that car? How loud are you going to shout so that someone hears you? This is similar to the burning desire all achievers have. (see also How to achieve anything you want in life)
  • 4) They have Perfect self understanding: There is an important question that might have came to your mind, what if you don't have a burning desire for anything? The difference between a person who has a burning desire to reach something and a one who doesn't know what he wants in life is the lack of self understanding. When you understand yourself very well you will find out the things that you are in need of the most and as a result you will have that burning desire required to become an achiever (see also The psychology of unmet needs)
  • 5) They are very brave: In my previous articles i said that many people aren't brave enough to pursue their goals and as a result they procrastinate, claim that they don't want to achieve the goal that much or even deceive themselves by finding another direction to move towards other than the one they really wanted. In all cases courage is the trait needed to help a person admit what he really wants in life and to fight for it

How i became an achiever and transformed my life

Just as you saw you can become an achiever as well once you change some of your beliefs, understand yourself more and build some courage.

Long ago i wasn't an achiever nor i knew what i wanted in life. I always preferred to escape whenever i got the chance but one day i found that i have no other option but to be brave if i wanted to live a good life.

I found that one of my deepest needs was to become a successful person and so i worked on acquiring the mentality of an achiever then within few years i became a dot come millionaire (see My book How i did it)

Reading was the thing that helped me understand myself more and when i managed to get this self understanding i knew what i should be going after and since that moment i became an achiever.

You too can do it just be brave and decide that you will begin.

I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.

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