So you did your best to treat her nicely
showered her with gifts and attention
never been mean to her
but she dumped you and favored another ill mannered guy over you. I know you are hurt but the good news i have for you is that the problem isn't with you but its with your attitude.
Women like nice guys but they put them in the friends zone and never allow them out. The real type of guys that really appeal to women are bad boys who don't only attract them but drive them crazy as well.
I have talked about being a bad boy earlier but because that topic is of great importance i had to visit it again to tell you more tips that can help you become a bad boy.
Can bad boys ever be nice? Of course they can but instead of being nice all the time they reward their partners with their nice behaviour when they stick to the rules. In other words a bad boy isn't a nice by default person but he is an unpredictable person who requires a lot of work in order for someone to extract that nice part out of him.
This is one of the main reasons why women like bad boys. Its because they represent a challenge to their self esteem. A woman will become addicted to that type of man because she will get a self esteem boost if she managed to make him nice.
The bad boy radiates confidence to the extent that he sometimes appears arrogant. Most people will try to make you feel guilty if you became over confident. Our societies teach us indirectly incorrect things about confidence in such a way that some people believe that over confidence is a bad thing.
The bad boy is not just confident when it comes to women but he is overly confident about every aspect of his life. He is not the cry boy who blames the unfairness of life for his misfortunes nor he is the one who runs to women for social support but instead he is a solid and independent person who never breaks.
Remember the last time you got excited about something?
Most probably your feelings resulted from some kind of positive expectations in addition to a certain level of uncertainty.
Because bad boys are unpredictable they keep women wondering whether they appealed to them or not. The problem with the nice guy is that all of his actions send two indirect messages to women 1) I am interested in you and 2) I am really desperate.
Women like challenges and prefer to chase what they cant have. In fact all human beings lose interest, at least partially, in whatever is 100% attainable. (see also How to use the weapon of attention to attract people to you)
A bad boy is a perfect representation of a male's masculinity. The more masculine you become the more will you be closer to becoming a bad boy. Take risks, be a bit aggressive, be a bit arrogant, say no, be dominant, go for martial arts, smile less often, act superior and act like there are lots of women waiting in the queue to take the turn.
do this and you will become a real bad boy.
People who don't understand how others perceive physical attraction usually develop the imagined ugliness disorder.
The book The psychology of physical attraction explained was released by 2knowmyself. This book won't just help you understand how the attraction process happens but it will also help you discover how attractive you are and will assist you in getting over the imagined ugliness problem.
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